NYC in 15 Hours

It was a random Friday in November, you know, the kind where the leaves are falling and the air is crisp? And BAM! Kid-free weekend. (Cue the happy dance!)

Naturally, my brain immediately went, "New York!" I hopped onto my trusty travel site, Justfly.com, just to see what kind of deals were lurking. And guess what? A $65 round trip flight from Atlanta to NYC on Frontier. Yes, you heard that right!

Now, let's be real, I'm a Delta girl. But a $65 round trip? My inner budget traveler couldn't resist. So, at the crack of dawn the next morning, I found myself boarding a 6 AM flight. And let me tell you, it was surprisingly delightful! I scored an entire row to myself (hello, stretching out!), had Wi-Fi to plan my NYC day, and even treated myself to a glass of sparkling wine. It was like the universe knew I needed a little pampering.

Fresh off an 8:05 AM landing at LGA, I was ready to hit the ground running, and I knew exactly how to do it without breaking the bank. Forget pricey cabs or Ubers, my secret weapon? The trusty Q70 select bus!

First stop: Roosevelt Avenue Station in Queens. This, my friends, is the gateway to Manhattan for savvy travelers. It's the cheapest and quickest way to get into the heart of the action. Pro-tip: have your MetroCard or digital wallet ready to tap and go! Once you're through the turnstiles, you're officially in the NYC subway labyrinth, a glorious, chaotic, and totally efficient system.

Now, navigating the subway can seem daunting, but fear not! There are a million trains ready to whisk you away. My destination? The elegant Upper East Side. So, I hopped on the F train (Coney Island bound, just follow the signs!) to Lexington Avenue, a crucial transfer point. From there, it was a quick switch to the 6 train (Uptown bound) and a smooth ride to 77th Street.

And where did I head straight from the subway? To Caviar Kaspia, of course!

Location shared, I was ready for a day with Joey, my good friend and city explorer. Our plan? Caviar bagels from Caviar Kaspia.

A breakfast fit for royalty, perfect for a Central Park stroll.

At 74th Street in Central Park, you'll find the Bow Bridge, which connects Cherry Hill and the Ramble, positioned west of Bethesda Terrace.

Baz Bagel’s signature poppyseed and sesame seed bagels, topped with rich cream cheese and 15 grams of Baeri caviar.

At 74th Street in Central Park, you'll find the Bow Bridge, which connects Cherry Hill and the Ramble, positioned west of Bethesda Terrace.

Navigating the city streets in my chic fall green and brown, perfectly camouflaged against the urban tapestry of changing leaves and building facades.

The Wollman Rink

Located in the southeast quadrant of Central Park, New York City, the rink is best reached by entering at 59th Street and 6th Avenue.

The Meatball Shop - Hell's Kitchen

Cheers to a successful morning in the city!

The Kitchen Sink

A delicious meal with seasonal sides and a simple salad with chicken meatballs drenched in tomato sauce. My fav.

Post-lunch, our downtown exploration led us to the unexpected gem of Ojas, a public listening room nestled within the USM Modular Furniture showroom.

This wasn't just a store; it was a curated haven for music aficionados. A collaborative creation with Kvadrat acoustics, Ojas felt like stepping into a communal living room, a space dedicated to the art of listening. We were incredibly fortunate to stumble upon the USM x Symbol pop-up Collection, a perfect soundtrack to a late November afternoon. If you're passionate about sound, follow @symbolaudio for upcoming events, and be sure to experience the elegant modularity of USM furniture in SoHo.

An Evening in Brooklyn

My day shifted from SoHo's buzz to Brooklyn's familiar embrace, a place that holds years of my twenties. A chance encounter at a DUMBO flea market sparked a wonderful reunion with Jakala, and we found ourselves unwinding at Dawn's Til Dusk. The night in Brooklyn, filled with connection and ease, left me happily exhausted and ready for my 11 PM flight from Queens to Atlanta.

Seriously, if I could teleport myself there every single month, I would. You know those trips where you feel like you've lived a whole other life? That's what a single day in NYC feels like. It's like condensing a week's worth of adventure into 15 glorious hours. And trust me, it's always worth it.

London Through My Eyes

After an eight-hour flight overseas, I arrived in London, England on a chilly Sunday morning.

As I stood in Heathrow Airport, I felt a mix of excitement and nervousness. After all, visiting London had been a long-time dream of mine, and it was finally happening. Outside was cool and dewy, with the sun just beginning to rise. As I waited for a taxi to take me to my hotel, I couldn't help but feel a flutter of butterflies in my stomach.

During my 45-minute journey, I took it all in. I passed by some historic sites and got a sense of the local neighborhoods. I didn’t realize how big of a city London was. It felt like the longest drive, but I was thrilled because I knew this was just the start of a wonderful adventure.

“Your airport outfit is important and don’t let others tell you differently.”

— Mikaela Rose

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Westminster

The Westminster area is an absolute must-see and was high priority on my list. I was amazed by the iconic monuments at Trafalgar Square, and the Houses of Parliament with its clock tower and the ringing of the Big Ben bell over the River Thames was truly a sight to behold. These landmarks are an important part of London's rich history, and I feel lucky to have experienced them firsthand.

The London Eye, also known as the Millennium Wheel, is a cantilevered observation wheel located on the South Bank of the River Thames in London. As Europe's tallest cantilevered observation wheel, it offers unparalleled views of the city and is a must-visit attraction for tourists.

I got lost and discovered that my favorite block in London is Regent Street. This bustling street is located in the West End of London and is a major shopping destination. It is named after George, the Prince Regent, and is home to many of my favorite stores. The opulent atmosphere of Regent Street captured my heart, and I highly recommend it to anyone who loves international shopping.

Views of East London

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London’s Night Life

I was lucky enough to have a colleague who was born and raised in London show me around the city at night. She took me to a restaurant and bar called Novikov, which was an amazing experience. This three-floor establishment has a see-and-be-seen type of atmosphere that is truly electric. I ordered a delicious creamy lobster pasta with an espresso martini, and it was love at first bite. While it's not exactly cheap, I can definitely say that Novikov is worth the hype.

I also made my way inside this very chic, dimly lit basement members-only bar in SOHO during my trip. This spot is famous for its creative cocktails and comfortable leather booths. The music and ambiance of the place transported me back in time, which was a unique experience. If you're interested in experiencing this bar, you'll have to get in line and add your name to the waitlist. Trust me, it's definitely worth the wait!

NOTTING HILL

Notting Hill is a vibrant and trendy area of London that caters to all tastes. You can enjoy casual cafes that line the bohemian Portobello Road, which is famous for its busy market selling antiques and vintage fashion. For a more upscale experience, head to the high-end restaurants and upscale boutiques that cluster around Westbourne Grove.

Notting Hill is a trendy and expensive neighborhood in London with brightly colored buildings, music venues, theaters, and boutique shops. It's an upscale area with a unique and hip vibe that's definitely worth exploring.

And if you're lucky enough to be in London during the annual Notting Hill Carnival, you'll be treated to parades and calypso music that reflect the area's Caribbean roots. Overall, Notting Hill is a must-visit destination for anyone looking for a unique and exciting experience.

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PRADA CAFFÈ

Prada Caffe is a dreamy pastel-colored cafe that exceeded my expectations. Instead of Breakfast at Tiffany's, I had the pleasure of enjoying coffee and chocolate at this stunning spot. If you're in London, you absolutely must visit Harrods, a luxury department store located on Brompton Road in Knightsbridge.

EL&N CAFE

EL&N London is the most Instagrammable cafe in the world, and it completely left me speechless. The design and colors of this place are overwhelming, and I found myself wanting to capture every detail while also taking it all in. After an impromptu photo shoot, I ordered a slice of delicious chocolate cake and an iced matcha latte. I went back multiple times because I couldn't get enough of their fresh and delightful cakes. With many locations across the city, it's easy to find an EL&N cafe. I recommend the Wardour St location near SOHO.

MY TOP 5 LONDON RESTAURANTS

Sticks’n’Sushi

I have to admit, after 32 years, I had never tried real sushi until I visited this Japanese restaurant in London. I'm talking about Shake, Maguro, and Hiramasa, not your typical California roll. Everything I tried was absolutely delicious, and I highly recommend adding this spot to your list. I visited the Shoreditch location, but there are plenty of locations across the city to choose from. If you're a fan of sushi, you won't want to miss this experience.

The Rajasthan II

Across the street from my hotel, there was this amazing Indian restaurant that caught my attention. As soon as I stepped inside, I was welcomed with the enticing aroma of freshly ground spices that was nothing short of heavenly. The simplicity of the room, with framed art and white tablecloths, added to the charm of the place, and I knew right then that I had made the right choice.

For my dinner, I ordered chana masala, chicken tikka masala, and naan at the Indian restaurant. As I relished my meal, I observed the tables nearby and enjoyed my own company. The freshness of the food was the first thing that caught my attention, and I could tell that the quality of the meal was top-notch. Every bite was rich and flavorful, and the experience left me craving Indian food every single day after that.

Enat Guada

When it comes to Ethiopian food, I consider myself a true connoisseur. I have tried some of the best Ethiopian food in Addis Ababa, Brooklyn, Houston, and Chicago, but the Ethiopian food in London was unlike anything I had tried before.

I ordered a variety of Ethiopian dishes including Kehk Wot (yellow split pea stew), Misser Wot (red split lentil stew), carrot and potato, sautéed spinach, and Shiro Wot (spiced chickpea stew). My go-to dish is usually the vegan or vegetarian platter which include some of the items I ordered.

The meal was so delicious and filling that I left feeling extremely satisfied. What's more, the food was also quite affordable. Although I had to travel to South London by bus and walk a few blocks to get there, it was totally worth it.

TERRY’S CAFE

Terry's Cafe was an absolute delight. It was a classic, family-run restaurant with a local feel. The diner had an old-school charm, which made me fall in love with the place. The red interior, 60's music, and photographs of celebrities on the wall contributed to its anachronistic ambiance.

As soon as I entered Terry's Cafe, I was greeted by Terry's son, who was one of the nicest English men I had ever met. His warm welcome made me feel right at home.

I ordered The Full English breakfast at Terry's Cafe, which comprised fried eggs, bacon, Cumberland sausage, black pudding, baked beans, grilled tomatoes, mushrooms, and hash browns. Although it was something new for me, it was everything I wanted in a breakfast. Every bite was scrumptious, and I was amazed to see that people ate beans for breakfast. I devoured everything on my plate.

Sketch

I decided to treat myself to some afternoon tea at Sketch. The restaurant used to be known for its pink interiors that were adorned with original artwork by David Shrigley, but it has since undergone a luxurious transformation.

The new design, created by India Mahdavi and Yinka Shonibare, is absolutely stunning. The space The Gallery has been transformed into a modern magical wonderland with beautiful golden and sunny hues. It's truly a sight to behold!

The assorted sandwiches were delicious, with my personal favorites being the Coronation Chicken, Cucumber & Egg Mayonnaise, Salmon & Ricotta, and Croque Monsieur. The sweets were equally delightful and I thoroughly enjoyed the Pineapple & Chilli Cheesecake, Sea Buckthorn Battenberg, Exotic Tart, Hazelnut Eclair, Chocolate & Coffee Macaron, and Grapefruit Marshmallow. Everything was perfect.

Catch up on my full experience on my recent blog post Afternoon Tea at Sketch in London

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Leaving London was hard…

I had a wonderful time in my new favorite city, but leaving London was hard.

As I packed my suitcase and make my way back to the airport, I felt a mix of emotions. On one hand, it's always tough to leave a place I’ve grown to love. But on the other hand, I’m grateful for the experiences I had with myself there.

Although I didn’t hit up all the places and attractions on my list, there's always next time. I’ll be back soon, ready to explore even more of what this incredible city has to offer.

Next stop, Paris!

Afternoon Tea at Sketch in London

During my recent trip to London, I decided to treat myself to some afternoon tea at Sketch. The restaurant used to be known for its pink interiors that were adorned with original artwork by David Shrigley, but it has since undergone a luxurious transformation. The new design, created by India Mahdavi and Yinka Shonibare, is absolutely stunning. The space The Gallery has been transformed into a modern magical wonderland with beautiful golden and sunny hues. It's truly a sight to behold!

From the moment I arrived, I was treated like royalty. The staff were incredibly welcoming and attentive throughout my visit. I arrived early and was able to take in the stunning interior design of the restaurant before being seated. Once I was seated, I was promptly served with my starter, the Autumn Bavarois, which was perfect for the season. I opted for the black tea and Pommery Champagne to accompany my meal.

The assorted sandwiches were delicious, with my personal favorites being the Coronation Chicken, Cucumber & Egg Mayonnaise, Salmon & Ricotta, and Croque Monsieur. The sweets were equally delightful and I thoroughly enjoyed the Pineapple & Chilli Cheesecake, Sea Buckthorn Battenberg, Exotic Tart, Hazelnut Eclair, Chocolate & Coffee Macaron, and Grapefruit Marshmallow.

Also, I was completely blown away by the restroom architecture. The toilets were situated inside these large white pods and the colorful ceiling added a really nice touch. It felt like I was at an art museum.

The overall experience at Sketch was truly unforgettable, from the amazing service to the delicious food. I give this restaurant a 10/10. I cannot wait to return again soon!

Make sure that you book The Gallery room for this awesome experience. The earlier your reservation, the better for photos with less crowd. If live music is your thing, Sketch provides live entertainment in the afternoon to serenade you while you enjoy tea.

Sketch

9 Conduit St, London W1S 2XG, United Kingdom

Coco In The City

NEW YORK CITY

No matter how well you think you know it, there’s always somewhere or someone new to discover. In my twenties, I moved to the city. It was one of the best times of my life. There was always something magical about walking the streets and observing the opulence of the town. I remember feeling a sense of awe every time I looked up at the towering skyscrapers and the hustle and bustle of the city streets. It was a place of endless opportunities and limitless possibilities, and I felt like I was at the center of it all. Every day was an adventure, and I couldn't wait to see what the city had in store for me next.

It's been quite a journey for me. A decade ago, I was living my best life in the city. But now, as a suburban mother in Georgia with a successful career in the tech industry, I rarely get the chance to revisit my favorite spots. However, I've made a promise to myself to document every detail of my latest experiences. These moments are a reflection of my youth, a proof that I lived and existed here in so many ways. Whether I was grabbing a coffee with my friends in SoHo or taking a train to Brooklyn to explore a new exhibit, I was present in every moment. It's those experiences that make life worth living.

THE NEW YORK TIMES

When I was in college, I envisioned myself working as a journalist for The New York Times. After switching my major from Criminal Justice to English Literature, I discovered my love for writing. Blogging quickly became my favorite hobby, and I even ran two blogs during my college years as well as had a Tumblr.

Through blogging, I was introduced to the art community and connected with other talented artists. I particularly admired women bloggers like Vashtie Kola and Dopest Ethiopian, who were ethnic, creative, and making strides on social media. Their stories inspired me, and I became interested in being a paid blogger. I wanted to emulate them and their success.

In 2010, I started my first blog, Twenty Year Old Artist From Chicago, and followed it up with Chocolate Cake, High Heels, & Cameras in 2011. These blogs were a way for me to express myself and document my journey into womanhood. They are very special to me. Although I never landed a job at The New York Times, I was fortunate enough to visit their office recently. Part of me still holds onto the hope that one day I will work there.

In the meantime, I will continue using this platform to connect with others and share my experiences. Thank you for taking the time to read my blog, and enjoy this special New York piece.

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ONE DOLLAR PIZZA

If you're planning a trip to New York, make sure to indulge in a slice of pizza! Trust me, it's seriously the best. I highly recommend checking out 2 Bros Pizza - their St. Marks location in the East Village is my personal favorite. And the best part? They serve hot $1 pizza all day long! It's an absolute must-have for me every time I'm in the city.

“Melting pot Harlem-Harlem of honey and chocolate and caramel and rum and vinegar and lemon and lime and gall. Dusky dream Harlem rumbling into a nightmare tunnel where the subway from the Bronx keeps right on downtown.”

— Langston Hughes

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Summer Renaissance

BREAKFAST AT TIFFANY’S

Introducing the Blue Box Café by Daniel Boulud, a charmingly elegant café located within The Landmark, Tiffany's 5th Avenue flagship store.

I had the loveliest breakfast with my best friend Kaiya at Tiffany's. It was such a nostalgic moment as we reminisced about our college days and one of our favorite movies, Breakfast at Tiffany's. I remember watching it together in our dorm room and now as grown women and mothers, we found ourselves meeting up at the iconic store. It was such a fitting activity for our friendship, and I was grateful for the time spent catching up with her.

Bronx

The Bronx holds a special place in my heart. It was where I first rented a room in New York, and I remember taking the 6 Train from downtown to Cypress Ave. every day. I lived with two uptown women in a walk-up apartment building, and although I have both good and bad memories of the Bronx, I always make a point to revisit my old neighborhood. It's a reminder of how much I've grown and how much I've preserved throughout the years.

ROMANTICIZE YOUR LIFE

I've come to realize that romanticizing my life doesn't necessarily mean creating a fictional world full of mythical creatures and vibrant colors. For me, it's all about finding joy and satisfaction in the simple things. Waking up early to savor a hot cup of coffee, listening to a carefully curated jazz playlist, or diving into a new book are all small pleasures that make life worth living.

Over time, I've learned to appreciate the little things in life, like the comfort of fresh sheets, the tranquility of stillness, and the luxury of a slow morning. Life is happening right now, not in some distant future. And the only way to fully experience it is by being completely present. When you're fully engaged in the moment, that's when you're truly living.

Late night catch-up at Omar’s Kitchen and Rum Bar with my bestie Kaiya.

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THE BROOKLYN PUBLIC LIBRARY

New exhibit ‘The Book of HOV’ pays homage to Jay-Z at the Brooklyn Public Library. If you haven’t had a chance to catch this installation, you still have time. The exhibit has been extended to December 4th.

RAS PLANT BASED

A pioneering Ethiopian gem in Crown Heights, Brooklyn. This is one of my favorite East African spots in the city. Every plate is a canvas and every flavor a narrative.

I had a glass of TEJ (honey wine) and ordered the PIASSA (savory beetroot, brown lentil, yellow split pea, mild chickpea, and crunchy zucchini).

Fort Greene, Brooklyn

Flatbush, Brooklyn

I've come to realize that romanticizing my life doesn't necessarily mean creating a fictional world full of mythical creatures and vibrant colors. For me, it's all about finding joy and satisfaction in the simple things. Waking up early to savor a hot cup of coffee, listening to a carefully curated jazz playlist, or diving into a new book are all small pleasures that make life worth living. Over time, I've learned to appreciate the little things in life, like the comfort of fresh sheets, the tranquility of stillness, and the luxury of a slow morning. Life is happening right now, not in some distant future. And the only way to fully experience it is by being completely present. When you're fully engaged in the moment, that's when you're truly living.

New York has romanced me unlike anything else.

NOLA Darling

NEW ORLEANS

New Orleans is truly a magical place where you can let go and unwind. I recently took a three-day break to just relax, indulge in good food, and immerse myself in the local culture.

BUT FIRST, CAFE DU MONDE

If you're looking for some delicious beignets in New Orleans, check out Cafe Du Monde in the French Market. This legendary cafe has been serving up its famous beignets since 1862, and they're definitely worth a visit!

THE FRENCHMEN HOTEL

I stayed at the Frenchmen Hotel on Frenchmen Street, which is situated just a few blocks away from Bourbon Street in the Marigny district. If you're looking for a place to enjoy live music, indulge in some delicious comfort food, and avoid the chaos of drunk tourists on the street, Frenchmen Street is the place to be.

For me, finding an authentic stay with easy access to great food options and privacy was a top priority, and the Frenchmen Hotel proved to be the perfect choice. The staff were friendly and accommodating, the rooms were clean and comfortable, and the overall atmosphere was cozy and inviting.

SOLO SELF-CARE TRIP

Sometimes I take time off from work to fully tap into myself. One of my favorite ways to rejuvenate is through solo travel. I love spending time alone and indulging in activities that make me feel good, like reading a new book, writing a blog, praying, tasting new food, and resting. There's something so liberating about moving at my own pace, discovering new things, and enjoying those priceless moments with myself. It's a way for me to give back to myself and show myself some love.

This hotel was perfect for me because it allowed me to move at my own pace. Whether I wanted to sleep in late, take a midday swim or enjoy a cocktail at midnight, the hotel was very accommodating. The best part was that I was able to experience the vibrant sights, sounds, and flavors of the Marigny without feeling obligated to follow a strict itinerary. It was a truly relaxing.

THE ELYSIAN BAR

I had a delicious meal at The Elysian Bar in Hotel Peter and Paul. The French Rolled Omelette with smoked salmon and mixed greens salad was a great choice. The restaurant has a wonderful atmosphere inspired by the Marigny neighborhood. I highly recommend checking out their various dining options, including the Courtyard, Cafe, Bar, Parlor 1, Parlor 2, or the Artrium.

MR. ED’S OYSTER BAR AND FISH HOUSE

Next on the list is Mr. Ed's Oyster Bar & Fish House, situated in the French Quarter. They specialize in serving oysters, which can be grilled, fried, or eaten raw. The dish that I relished the most was their red beans and rice. Additionally, I highly recommend trying their fried catfish. At Mr. Ed's Oyster Bar, there is something for everyone to enjoy.

THE COURT OF TWO SISTERS

This charming restaurant is situated in the heart of the French Quarter and offers a daily jazz brunch that features a delectable selection of Creole classics. The courtyard setting adds to the overall experience and provides a relaxing ambiance. I must say that the glazed pecan sweet potatoes stole the show for me - they were simply divine! Additionally, I highly recommend trying the special seafood omelette - it's a must-have. Overall, I had a wonderful time at The Court of Two Sisters and would definitely revisit if I have the opportunity.

DAT DOG

If you're in the mood for a delicious and unique dining experience, I definitely suggest checking out Dat Dog. This spot is located on Frenchmen Street and it has so much to offer. One of their standout dishes is a hot dog made from a cheeseburger - it's quite the tasty treat! Additionally, their chili cheese fries are some of the best I've ever had. Trust me, after a few drinks, you'll be glad you stopped by. Don't miss out on this gem!

LIL DIZZY’S CAFE

Of course, if you're planning a trip to New Orleans, a stop at Lil Dizzy’s Cafe in Treme is an absolute must. Their gumbo, baked macaroni and cheese, and blackened fish are all absolutely delicious. I'd recommend getting there early to avoid the crowds - this place is popular for a reason!

SIDNEY’S SNOWBALLS

You absolutely must make a stop at Sidney's Snowballs located outside of Treme. It's a legendary establishment and I cannot stress enough how essential it is to try one of their snowballs. Be sure to order the wedding cake flavor with condensed milk - it's an absolute must-try!

In today's world, it's important to prioritize our mental health and well-being. According to the CDC, black women are more likely to experience symptoms of Major depressive disorder (MDD) compared to white women. That's why I make sure to check in with myself regularly to stay on top of my mental health. Traveling has always provided me with a new perspective on my life.

THANK YOU, NEW ORLEANS!

I feel so refreshed and rejuvenated after my time there. From the delicious food to the beautiful architecture, everything was absolutely perfect. Now, I'm ready to dive back into motherhood, my career, and tackle whatever challenges come my way. Until next time, New Orleans!I

Thanks for reading. What are the hottest new spots in New Orleans? Let me know so I can visit during my next trip!

My Super Late 32nd Birthday Blog

December 22, 2022

I really enjoy the Clermont Hotel, which is one of my favorite landmarks in Atlanta. Its strong midcentury modern atmosphere is something I appreciate. While I have visited the hotel multiple times, my most recent stay was particularly memorable.

I was greeted by the staff who warmly wished me a happy birthday and offered me a glass of champagne upon my arrival. It was the ideal start to my birthday eve.

I frequently revisit this timeless hotel for its stunning aesthetics. I admire the meticulous attention to detail, the blend of various patterns and textiles, and the vibrant hues of the rooms.

This particular hotel is popular because it houses the oldest strip club in Atlanta. The Clermont Lounge opened in 1955 as an upscale supper club and is Located in the basement of the hotel. It was reopened in 1965 and is now completely female-owned.

I’ve never been, but I heard it’s a wild show.

Cafe Intermezzo

I celebrated my birthday brunch at Cafe Intermezzo, one of my all-time favorite coffee shops. This charming cafe perfectly captures the ambiance of a traditional 300-year-old European coffeehouse. Whether it's breakfast, lunch, or dinner, or just a late-night snack with a cappuccino or cocktail, this cafe is the ideal spot to indulge.

Special shout-out to my cousin, Victoria, and friends Pauleka and Serenity for celebrating with me. It’s always juicy conversation and laughs with these ladies.

And they showed up looking fabulous.

Vibes

Back to the room for some celebratory champagne and a thoughtfully curated music playlist.

I absolutely love this dress from SKIMS - it’s one of my ‘old faithfuls’ that I never get tired of wearing.

Victoria and Ronielle, my friends from Birmingham, AL, arrived just in time for dinner. They greeted me with roses and champagne at the door.

Welcome to Tiny Lou’s

Tiny Lou’s is a chic French-American brasserie located downstairs at Hotel Clermont.

We enjoyed a luxurious dinner of steak and champagne. As a delightful surprise, our gracious hosts presented me with a handwritten birthday card signed by the entire team. Their thoughtful gesture made me feel truly valued and appreciated.

The High Museum

The High is the largest museum for visual art in the Southeastern United States. It’s located in Midtown on Peachtree Street - the city’s art district. It’s also a division of the Woodruff Arts Center. The High organizes and presents exhibitions of international and national significance alongside its comprehensive collection of more than 18,000 works of art.

We were fortunate enough to catch Deana Lawson’s exhibition, which was available from October to February of early this year.

Working primarily in photography, Lawson explores representations of Black identities and bodies. The artist describes her work as “a mirror of everyday life, but also a protection of what I want to happen. It’s about setting a different standard of values and saying that everyday Black lives, everyday experiences. are beautiful, powerful, and intelligent.”

Lunch at Dirty Rascal’s

Classic Italian-American cuisine from James Beard nominated Chef Todd Ginsberg located inside of the Thompson Hotel.

Spaghetti Alla Pomodoro and Expresso Martini

Had an amazing time celebrating my birthday with my girls at Dirty Rascal's! The service, food, and drinks were all top-notch. And to make the day even more special, the manager brought out complimentary drinks and dessert for the occasion. It was such a sweet surprise and made the day even more memorable. If you're ever in the Buckhead area, I highly recommend checking out this adorable Italian restaurant.

Here's to another year of successful birthdays!

New York is Really That Girl

My friends and I dwelled in the rotten apple for a few days. On the Lower East Side to be exact.

Kiah, Jasmine, and Pauleka. When God sends us friends like these, it is important to cherish them. Traveling has always been my love language. I am forever grateful for the memories we created on our trip.

Take a closer look…

“Go from trips to Delancey to trips to the Grammy’s ”

— Puff Daddy

Ruby’s Cafe

This petite Australian cafe lured us in with their indoor and outdoor dining options. This all-day café is known for their yummy coffee, Aussie-style hamburger, and healthy-ish bowl-based meals.

For breakfast, I enjoyed their iced matcha and green eggs bowl with smoked salmon. The bowl consisted of soft scrambled eggs, spinach, kale peas, avocado, and salsa verde. This was the perfect meal to begin our active day in the big city.

SOHO

SoHo (South of Houston Street) was my stomping grounds for many years. I landed my first tech job in the SoHo neighborhood back in 2015. My daily commute was riding the J train from Brooklyn to China Town, and transferring to an uptown 6 train to Spring street. Walking to my former job was always a treat. Along the way I would pass photographers working with models, lost tourists asking for directions, and hella Halal food trucks. I even remember seeing the Kardashians during NYFW leaving their hotel directly across the street from my office. Everyday was an adventure. That was SoHo.

My first experience of SoHo was being guided by Google Maps to Forever 21on Broadway while I was in undergrad. I instantly fell in love with SoHo’s cast-iron architecture and street fashion. It was hard to believe that SoHo was where struggling artists once lived. It became this place of high-end designer stores, fabulous restaurants, and luxury living. I was impressed by the art scene and visualized myself becoming a part of that culture one day.

As you can imagine, it was a dream to start my tech journey there.

Fast forward to 2022, and I still get chills walking down Spring. Jasmine suggested we hit Dominque Ansel Bakery which just so happens to be on Spring street. It was definitely a full circle moment.

“When I first moved to New York and I was totally broke, sometimes I bought Vogue instead of dinner. I found it fed me more.”

— Carrie Bradshaw

One morning after breakfast, we strolled through the Manhattan streets and stumbled upon a local flower market. Jasmine is a flower lover and encouraged us to stop for a second. She picked through bunches of flowers. It was so exciting to watch her get to work. That moment reminded me to slow down and smell the flowers.

Also, a friendly reminder to support your local flower markets.

Harlem

“Harlem is a stage. It’s like its own planet, from the way we dress to the swag in the way we walk and talk.”

— Teyana Taylor

Headed to Dinner

RH Rooftop Restaurant at RH New York

Who knew Restoration Hardware had a rooftop?

From the moment we entered the RH New York restaurant (The Gallery in the historic Meatpacking District), we were in awe of the views. We dined under glimmering chandeliers and pleached London plane trees, while drinking really good prosecco. The vibes of the restaurant were giving luxury.

The thing I love about RH is that you can get interior design inspiration for your house while enjoying a really good meal with a view. There are so many wins.

Oh, and I was super stoked to catch up with actor and multi-media producer Mariana Novak at dinner.

I definitely recommend having a glass of champagne at RH Rooftop during your next visit to New York City.

Lower East Side / East Village

Due to stable cheese prices, 2 Bros Pizza is still $1 for a cheese slice at six of their nine locations. I remember being so broke while studying at New York Film Academy - that I could only afford to eat there. I always bought two slices with a drink. That was my jam.

After enjoying a nice walk on St. Marks Place while devouring hot pizza, I wanted ice cream. Not just any ice cream though. I wanted something special.

For all of my untraditional ice cream lovers, treat yourself to a scoop or two at Stuffed Ice Cream. The white chocolate lavender and red velvet cookie dough crumble flavors always excite me. They also specialize in bouquets up to 21 scoops.

“I live in The Village. Wherever I go I walk to. I keep my friends around so I have someone to talk to”

— Beastie Boys

BLK MKT Vintage

I fell in love with this Brooklyn, NY-based antique store. The shop is drenched with Black history collectibles. The shop appeared very vintage and rich in culture after catching my first glimpse. The experience was curated by the founders Jannah Handy and Kiyanna Stewart.

This was also another suggestion from Jasmine that made our trip amazing.

Catch The Vibes

Getting dressed and going out for dinner is such a New York thing.

New York can be so romantic at times. There is always a song playing and lots of street lights. The scene is well lit. You can walk down the street and feel like a star in a movie. Everyone sees you. It is quite magical.

On this particular night, we had dinner reservations at the 40/40 Club in Manhattan.

The 40/40 Club has always been my place. I celebrated my 25th birthday there, and had multiple dinners with friends throughout the years. It is a place where both men and women can enjoy luxury sports bar culture with a touch of Hip Hop. The experience is what keeps me loyal and always going back.

Brooklyn, NY

A very special thanks to Jasmine for directing my Why Don’t We Fall in Love video in Fort Greene, BK. We had so much fun reminiscing to the early 2000’s. We even caught a cab to DUMBO.

Lower East Side

“There’s something so romantic about being broke in New York. You gotta do it. You have to live there once without any money, and then you have to live there when you have money. Let me tell you, of the two, the latter is far better. ”

— Amy Poehler

On The 6

This is probably one of the most important trains in New York. This line starts in the Bronx at Pelham Bay Park, and ends at the Brooklyn Bridge. It goes through popular neighborhoods like China Town, East Village, Union Square, and Spanish Harlem (just to name a few).

This line is also special to me because it was my first train line when I moved to New York. My first room was in the Bronx right off Cypress Avenue. This train took me downtown everyday for school and taught me the MTA train system.

The memories…

Maman NYC

One morning for breakfast we checked out this French café downtown called Maman. It is also a bakery, restaurant, and event space. If you are into French vibes, this is your spot.

I enjoyed their daily quiche with spinach, roasted tomatoes, roasted peppers and sage. The honey lavender latte was also a hit.

Oh, let me not forget about the relationship I had with the strawberry almond croissant. Yummy!

A pleasant surprise was linking up with my best-friend Kaiya. Our first time in New York was a decade ago. We were so young and eager to explore the big city. Since then, we have celebrated multiple birthdays holidays there. Seeing her was a reminder of all memories we created. It was the icing on the cake.

Of course all good trips come to an end, which is why we stopped by The Skinny Bar and Lounge for farewell drinks. Our bartender Ivan hooked us up with celebratory shots and champagne. We danced to 90’s Hip Hop and reminisced about the days prior. This was the perfect chill before going back home.

These are the trips I remember in detail. To eat at luxury restaurants, stay at boutique hotels, and consistently slay looks was just a manifestation of the life I desire to live. This is yet another example of me documenting my youth and experiencing joy.

A huge special shout out to my friends for contributing good energy to our trip, and for being present in the moment. I learned so many things about myself while traveling with these ladies, and those are the type of friends you need in your circle.

“A hundred times I have thought: New York is a catastrophe, and fifty times: it is a beautiful catastrophe.”

— Le Corbusier

Just checked Hawaii off my bucket list!

Imagine waking up on a Sunday morning during sunrise - overlooking Diamond Head while the sky is mixed with pink. The air is fresh and the beach is calm. It is the most peaceful time of day. You can feel the waves from your hotel sheets. You want to relish in the moment of waking up 4,500 miles away from home.

Moments later, the sun peaks in through the linen curtains as a gentle reminder that it is time to get out of bed. Time to see what the big island has to offer.

Well that was my first morning in Honolulu. I was open to learning new things about myself, and taking a break.

The first thing I wanted to do was hit Waikiki Beach.

I heard of this stunning beach before, but never had I imagined water that blue and felt sand so soft. I thought I was in a music video. I admired my surroundings - so I allowed myself to be fully present in that moment.

Also, let us not forget to protect our skin. Black people can get sunburned too. Although melanin protects against a percentage of UV rays, we are still susceptible to sun damage. The most effective sunscreens have a SPF of 30.

When it comes to Hawaiian foods, there is no particular dish. Popular foods in Hawaii are poke, manapua, spam musubi, fish tacos, huli huli chicken, garlic shrimp, loco moco, and shaved ice.

One day for lunch, I got lost along the beach and discovered this Hawaiian fare restaurant called Shorefyre. They had a huli-huli chicken plate that excited me. It was a bit sticky and sweet. The smokey finish sealed the deal. I personally love a good grilled piece of meat. I also learned that huli is the Hawaiian word for “turn” and huli huli chicken is constantly turned while it is cooked.

To top off lunch, I ordered a Mai Tai. This popular Hawaiian cocktail is made of rum, Curaçao liquor, orgeat syrup, and lime juice. Yummy!

Now as far as physical activities, I got you covered.

One of my favorite things to do on vacation is exercise. I love a good work out. Especially after eating and drinking delicious Hawaiian food nonstop. My sister and I decided to hike up Diamond Head Mountain early one morning. It was the ultimate guide to breathtaking views of the big island.

It generally takes the average visitor around 45 minutes to reach the top of the trail. I highly recommend hiking early to avoid larger crowds and the heat.

Making it to the top of Diamond Head was rewarding.

The final stretch was challenging. I remember climbing upward through a tunnel as I dripped in sweat. It felt like the longest few minutes of my day. I remember having to slow down multiple times to take breaths. My sister is a regular hiker so she was far beyond me. All I could think about in that moment was a shower and gulping down some water.

However, observing these views were worth every bead of sweat. I probably would do it again.

After a morning of hiking around a mountain, I took the rest of the day to relax with a bottle of prosecco.

Slowing down while on vacation has become my thing. I used to love the grind of traveling and hopping from place to place, but this trip felt different. There was a calming peace that surrounded me. I honored it with stillness.

Pool Day

A pool day is required on every beach trip.

What is better than sipping a margarita and eating fish tacos poolside?

My point exactly!

I love to create vibes at the pool so I curated a summer beach themed playlist on Tidal. My favorite genre of music is hip hop and R&B with a splash of reggaeton. Ja Rule back in 2002 still has me in a chokehold. That was probably my favorite part. Relaxing at the pool and jamming to some of our favorites.

Time For Dinner

For dinner one night, we stumbled upon this chic Italian restaurant called Arancino di Mare.

This restaurant is a casual stop for sea urchin & jumbo pasta plates. I ordered spaghetti ai ricci di mare with pizza margherita. It sounds like a lot, but I managed to clear my plates after hours of conversation and drinks with my sister.

Beach Day

After flying in a helicopter through choppy winds and a thunderstorm - I wanted to spend a day at the beach.

The thing I loved most about the beach was the the chill. Parents were surfing with their children, professional athletes were playing volleyball, and locals were grilling while dancing to Afrobeats.

The balmy days of spring filled the air with excitement and tranquility. I felt at peace and for a moment I had a thought of moving to Hawaii and chilling forever. People actually slowed down there. No one was in a rush. It was the stillness I needed after the busy holiday season.

My visit to Honolulu planted a special place in my heart. This was the island that reminded me to slow down and breathe. I get consumed with life, and sometimes I forget how short life is.

Lately, we have consumed a ton of tragedy on our screens. It can take us to dark places. I have experienced dark times in my recent years of adulthood. Traveling has always been my psychological healer. I become closer to myself every-time I leave far away from home. It challenges me to break the norm and allow myself the opportunity to rest.

Hawaii felt like home to me.I felt like I discovered a new part of me there.

If you can go, go now!

And Just Like That, It Was December

It was an early Monday morning flying over Chicago as my son laid asleep in my lap. He tried to stay up for the duration of our flight by fighting his sleep, but the turbulence got the best of him. Right as I began dozing off, the Captain told us to look outside our right window. There she was…Chicago. It was the perfect moment to take pictures.

After landing on Chicago’s south side at Midway Airport, I was ready to eat. My mom stopped by one of my favorite burrito restaurant’s called Burrito Beach. The burrito spot is located on the same street I lived on for 8 years. It tasted the same, but even better.

After stuffing our faces, I went grocery shopping at Whole Foods to grab food and beverages that would last majority of my trip. My grocery store run was so successful because I found a bottle of real Champagne from France along with some delicious brie.

Following Whole Foods, we got D-Tre settled at my mom’s apartment downtown. I could tell he was super stoked about staying at his grandma’s house. He loves visiting her home because it is the most elevator action he gets during the year. He enjoys pressing the buttons, and waiting for the doors to slide open. It tickles him every time.

For my birthday, I stayed at a hotel. I wanted to treat myself to a luxury experience. I lived in Chicago for 22 years and never stayed at a nice hotel downtown. This was my moment to be a tourist at home.

I stayed at The Viceroy Hotel in the Gold Coast.

The Gold Coast is a historic neighborhood downtown Chicago that gained an early reputation of affluence and luxury, which is why I was drawn to this hotel. I wanted to wake up on my birthday in one of the richest neighborhoods in America. I am manifesting the life I want to live.

Following my birthday breakfast, I took myself for a walk around the neighborhood. I ended up at a Walgreens buying mascara. I felt extremely grateful because the weather was comfortable and the sun was out. I walked back to my hotel unbothered by the loudness from the streets. I had missed hearing city talk and watching locals yell at cab drivers for stopping traffic. The entire walk was a vibe.

After taking a few birthday calls and getting dressed, two of my closest friends came over. Mark and Kaiya.

While nibbling on small plates and drinking champagne, we caught up over conversation. It felt like back in the day when we celebrated every birthday together. Though we all live in different states, we always find a way to celebrate each other’s big day. This was the first time the three of us were together since before the pandemic. It was so special.

My childhood friend Ebonie is a professional baker. She designs custom treats for her clients, and is based in Chicago. She made a special order of Coco Chanel Cookies just for me. These sugar cookies were delicious.

Tipsy off champagne and wine, we strolled our way into a cab going down State Street. We had reservations for lunch at The Lobby in the Peninsula Hotel on Michigan Avenue.

They had the most beautiful Christmas tree in the center of the restaurant. The food was delicious. I ordered the spicy lobster pasta. It is handmade linguini with lobster, tomato, Calabrian chili, and lobster sauce.

We sat and drank a bottle of Vie Vite, Rosé from Provence, France - while being serenaded by a violin. This was probably my favorite part of my birthday.

Next, we left to changed clothes and rested for a few. That bottle of Rosé did a number on us.

However, I am so grateful for friends who share the same taste in music with me. We laughed and grooved to some classics at the hotel.

A few hours later, we traveled back to the Peninsula Hotel for drinks and views at Z-Bar. I enjoyed the vibe at this lounge. It was not too stuffy, yet very elegant. The view of Michigan Avenue from their rooftop was stunning.

I had numerous birthday celebrations with close friends in Chicago during that week. I would be here for hours going into all the details. I will spare you by sharing the rest of my birthday shenanigans through photos.

You will see moments at Three Dots and a Dash, NIU Japanese Fusion Lounge, Devereaux, London House, Somerset, and ROOF on theWit

Three Dots and a Dash

NIU Japanese Fusion Bar

Lychee Martini

Devereaux

London House

Champagne and Chocolate Martini

Somerset

Chocolate Martini

Dirty Martini

ROOF at theWIT

After days of restaurant and bar hopping, I introduced D-Tre to the Gold Coast. It was his turn to hit the streets. We strolled 12 blocks around downtown. We even made an appearance on Rush Street. He fell asleep for half the walk, but woke up just in time for pictures.

Christmas Day

After opening toys at my parents’ house on Christmas morning, we headed over to my uncle Rick’s for dinner.

Snow Day

Museum of Contemporary Art Chicago

‘Sulfer Cycle’ by Dan Peterman now resides in the walls MCA.

My trip home unquestionably set the tone for the new year. For 31, I will give this version of me the energy it deserves. I am dedicated to living the life that I want.

I am about to be “that girl” in 2022 from my finances, spiritual and mental health, and personal growth. I hope my birthday/holiday trip inspired you just like it did for me.

Thanks for stopping by!

Chicago for a few days...

Major shout-out to my cousin Patrick. He’s the reason this trip came about. He married the love of his life Jessica, in September. Their wedding was so beautiful. I lack visual evidence because I probably was too busy dancing with my son D-Tre and eating pizza. The music was on point. The DJ played music dedicated to my generation. There was also an open bar and a free pizza truck outside the venue. I didn’t want the night to end. I mean, who would?

Outside of the festivities, my trip was very chill. It was the first time I was able to stay downtown the majority of my time home. That was rare. I’m usually stressed when I travel back because everyone wants to link and traveling to connect all across the city is a lot. I’m grateful for friends who traveled to see me. Every moment was truly special. This trip was full of self-care and joy.

I captured as much as I could, but you truly had to be there to catch the vibes.

Summer in New York

New York has always been my playground. It’s my favorite city in the world. I love it because it’s a melting pot of many cultures. There’s so much delicious food to try. The city also has one of the world’s largest art communities. There’s a ton of popular restaurants, events, and neighborhoods to explore. It’s also the birthplace of Hip Hop. You’re truly missing out if you haven’t been.

I loved living in Brooklyn in my 20’s. Those were some of the best years of my life. You will truly find out about yourself in a tough place like New York. I experienced some of my hardest days there, but I’ll never take them back. New York is always in my heart and on my mind.

I tell tourists that a train ride on the subway is the best way to see New York. There’s a magnetic energy on those trains that inspire you to be present. Also, to pay attention.

I traveled to New York multiple times over the summer for self-care, to reconnect with friends, and to celebrate my best friend Kaiya’s 30th birthday. I also squeezed in a delicious Ethiopian lunch with well known photographer and my mentor Jon Henry. I felt so inspired after having conversations with my friends about progressional and art. I swear I received everything I didn’t know I needed during my visit.

Of course, I took a lot of photos. I believe it’s important to document my youth. It’s proof that I had these experiences and I’ll be able to share them with my grandchildren one day.

Please allow my images to inspire you. I covered a lot of ground during my visits.

I hope you can keep up.

It’s Giving Tulum

Since the pandemic, Mexico has been a hot travel spot and I totally get why. Tulum has beautiful beaches and exotic scenery. Playa Del Carmen has affordable luxury all-inclusive resorts, and Cancun has the most lit boat parties.

Please note that I was nervous as hell to travel out the country at first, but I don’t allow myself to live in fear. Life is short and I have faith in my God that I’m always protected by Him.

By the grace of God, my friends and I were safe during our stay in Playa Del Carmen. We lived our best lives for a few days without blinking.

My favorite part of this trip was creating new memories with my best friend, Gabby. I mean a woman only turns 30 once. Cheers to the next decade of our lives. May we continue to thrive.

Here are some of those memories. From watching my brave friends jump into the Cenotes, to getting tipsy on a boat, and visiting Chichén Itzá - I took a ton of photos. Each moment was special and I love to capture a good moment. Enjoy the views!

Colorado does not shut down!

This was one of my favorite trips!

My big sister Megan turned 35 and we pulled up to Colorado for a week of adventure. Our itinerary was packed. We didn’t rest much during this trip, but who’s complaining?

To begin, we all met up at the airport. Megan lives in Los Angeles. Tikeila, Qiana, and Chrissy live in Chicago. I stay in Atlanta. So you can imagine how excited we were to see each other and be in the same time zone.

Our week in Colorado consisted of us bartending at our airbnb, skiing, having photoshoots in the snow, and us dippin’ in the Hot Springs. We visited Aspen, Denver, Georgetown, Breckenridge, and Vail.

Here are some highlights of my favorite moments. Enjoy!

Chicago, Please!

Last October, I traveled back home to Chicago to visit family, eat delicious food, and rooftop hop with my girls. Traveling during a pandemic was not ideal, but the journey was rewarding. I slept downtown at The St. Clair Hotel on Ontario. I recommend this accommodation if you are on a budget, but desire to be close to Michigan Avenue. My hotel was literally walking distance to multiple restaurants, cafes, and shopping stores near the Magnificent Mile.

Some of the top spots I hit were Yolks, NIU Japanese Fusion Lounge, The Ivy Hotel, and Ethiopian Diamond. Yolks has been a staple in my life since I was 21. I love a good vegetarian omelette with matcha for breakfast. The California omelette is delicious. Please do yourself a favor and order it. They have other tasty brunch options and multiple locations around downtown.

If you enjoy sushi, I recommend NIU Fusion Lounge. They serve a mean cocktail and have outstanding service. Also, their Rock ‘n Roll sushi is worth writing home about. I mean Alaskan shredded crab, shrimp, octopus, avocado, spicy mayo and crispy tempura coating, topped with eel sauce. Yummy!

For those who love a sexy rooftop moment, The Ivy Hotel is a vibe. They provide genuine views of Streeterville and The John Hancock. I appreciated the calmness of the lounge and indie sounds. The vibe was chill. I plan to visit again during my next trip. Last, but not least - Ethiopian Diamond. I highly recommend this northside restaurant if you value authentic Ethiopian culture. The injera and gomen was on point.

Please note that I practiced social distancing during my time in Chicago and tested negative for COVID after returning back to Atlanta. Please be encouraged and inspired to safely travel if you can.

Now, the visuals!

Ish Got Real While In Dubai

Who knew the coronavirus would be declared a pandemic on one of the nights we were chilling in our hotel room enjoying room service. We received mad messages from our family back home about the travel ban and we understood the risk we were taking by staying there, but we love taking risks.

This was one of the best trips I’ve been on. I had dinner 164 feet in the air, spent a day at Al Awir desert, and got lost in a miracle garden. I fell more in love with the Middle East during my stay. The people are some of the realist people I’ve ever met. They take chances. They hustle. They’re smart asf.

All jokes aside, we were extremely careful and smart while in Dubai. We were able to catch the last flight to LA through Swiss Airline on the morning of the travel ban.

I’m extremely grateful to share these vibrant visuals with you. Enjoy!

But first, let’s go to california

12 years later…

It felt so good to be back in LA. I remember going there for the first time while in middle school. My mom wanted me to see something new and she planned this big trip. I was 12 years old on Rodeo Drive, staying at a hotel near Beverly Hills, chilling at Venice Beach, and walking around Hollywood. I did all the touristy things.

Six years later, we went back. That trip was short though. We basically had a full day to spare before leaving on our cruise to Mexico. We only visited Santa Monica. I didn’t really get a chance to explore LA at 18 which detached me from the city.

However, I didn’t know what I was missing until two weeks ago. I returned to LA excited for a new experience. There’s nothing like visiting a place as a child and experiencing it as an adult. Two different things.

I landed early at LAX on March, 4th. Caught a Lyft to Roscoe’s Chicken and Waffles for breakfast. The smell of fried chicken dominated the air as I entered the historically famous restaurant. The people were so vibrant on a Wednesday morning. It was lit. I ordered all the vegetarian options, which were well seasoned cheese eggs and potatoes.

After breakfast, I made my way through Inglewood to Hilltop Cafe. This black owned cafe was two stories, bright, had vegan/vegetarian options, and played classic neo-soul music. It was a whole vibe.

This was just the beginning of my amazing experience. From eating the best Mexican food, spending a day at Venice Beach with Megan, and linking up with my friends, I tried to capture as much of my trip through photography as I could. Each photo tells a story and you’ll be glad you came after viewing.

Soooo enjoy and feel free to share my journey with your friends.

Fall in san francisco

At the beginning of November, I traveled to California to attend AfroTech. I flew across the country with my Mailchimp family on an early Wednesday morning, which allowed us more time to explore. I visited the Painted Ladies, had lunch in Chinatown at Begoni, hit up Lombard Street, and hiked up Battery Spencer to get delicious shots of the Golden Gate Bridge. My journey was simple and sweet. I fell in love with San Francisco’s architecture in a matter of hours. I rode around in Lyft’s trying to take in as much as possible and capture videos from my iPhone.

During this trip, I learned that I enjoy traveling solo. It’s nothing like returning back to your hotel early just to have some down time. My days in San Fran were so filling that turning in early felt rewarding. I love a change of scene every now and then. Exploring new places has always been my medicine. This had to be one of my favorite trips. Grateful to share those moments with you.

Infinity Mirrors by. Yayoi Kusama

On Sunday, February 10th - I visited the High Museum in Atlanta for the popular Infinity Mirrors exhibit. I fought so hard to get tickets to this show.

Yayoi Kusama had a breakthrough in 1965 when she produced Infinity Mirror Room—Phalli’s Field. Using mirrors, she transformed the intense repetition of her earlier paintings and works on paper into a perceptual experience. 

I remember seeing parts of this show in Chelsea, New York in 2015. By tracing the development of these iconic installations alongside a selection of her other key artworks, Yayoi Kusama: Infinity Mirrors aims to reveal the significance of the Infinity MIrror Rooms amidst today’s renewed interest in experiential practices and virtual spaces.

Thankfully, my girl Kiah was able to snag us some last minute photos before the show ended. Check it out.

The Souls of Millions of Light Years Away

Aftermath of Obliteration of Eternity 

Dots Obsession - Love Transferred Into Dots

Phalli’s Field

The Obliteration Room

Stepping into Womanhood at 28

“Today I affirm: I do not wish to have power over men; but over myself.”

“Note to self: This is your journey, your body, your mind, and your spirit. Dig deep, own it and start doing things for you and by you.”

Photos by Lizzy Johnston

What has been a non-obvious turning point for you, either personally or professionally?

Realizing that my dreams of becoming a documentary photographer has not been my main priority since moving to Atlanta last year. I have become so wrapped up in being an adult that I have neglected being an artist. I give my job 8 hours of my life daily just to go home and not work on my own goals. It has been a hard pill to swallow accepting that I am not tired, just uninspired. This has caused me to be unfulfilled a lot during 2018. Some days it is difficult, but that is when I find myself tapping into selfcare more than ever. Visiting museums, traveling, and organizing my own editorial shoots have been my saving grace. People do not understand the withdrawals that artists experience while not creating, which is why I do not open up to everyone about it. I have to be mindful of whose eyes I see myself through because not everyone has proper vision. 

In what ways have you become the woman you have always wanted to be? How has your idea of that woman changed over time?

I am a woman who cannot live my life being dependent on other sources of energy or income. I love being independent. You have to learn how to vibe alone. You have to appreciate your ability to be self-sufficient. I have never needed to be around a group of females to feel popular or have a man provide for me. I get the bag on my own. I am my own best friend. I believe that you give your power away when you make things outside of you your source.

My ideas of womanhood are always shifting because I am still growing and learning. As a woman, I do not see boundaries. I do not believe in social gender norms. I do not believe women have to soft-spoken or silent. I believe that women are born beautiful as our natural selves and should not feel the need to be manufactured for the worship or scorn of others. I do not believe women are supposed to act like ladies. What does that even mean? I find that offensive.

I do believe that womanhood is realizing that I can be whoever I want to be on my own terms. Knowing that I have a choice and a say over my mind and body. With that said, I stand tall in that truth.

What themes or questions have been most emergent for you of late?
How can I practice a healthier holistic lifestyle? Holistic healthy living involves treating ourselves as multi-dimensional, complex beings that are affected by many factors. These factors range from what you eat, physical activity levels, your thinking patterns, relationships in your lives, stress and much more. Exercise, proper nutrition, spiritual growth, paying attention to how you truly feel and developing a mind-body connection are all important aspects of living a holistic approach to health.

How do you show up for yourself? 

By giving myself space. If it does not make me happy or agree with my spirit, then I cannot afford it. My energy is on a strict budget. I believe that self-care is not selfish. You cannot serve from an empty vessel. Sometimes I have to practice saying NO to people and avoid putting myself in certain environments because my spirit is sensitive. I cannot be around a lot of negativity and lifeless energy.

I need days to be alone so I can recharge. I do not allow myself to get comfortable around people who are full of drama. I love from a distance - even when it comes to certain family members because I have to protect my peace at all cost. Sometimes divorcing toxic family members and an old acquaintance can be a form a self-love.

What has been the most life-changing thing that happened this year? And why?

I have two. Visiting Cairo, Egypt in March and learning that I was expecting in August.

Culturally, Egypt is one of the most ancient civilizations in the world. I had the opportunity to see with my eyes and touch the Pyramids. I rode a camel in Giza. Drank tea with locals. Sailed down the Nile River. I tried new foods and visited the Mediterranean sea. That trip changed my entire perspective of the world. The Egyptians I met were the most generous, intelligent and noble human beings I ever conversed with. The level of hospitality that I experienced there was second to none. The humility of the Egyptians caused conviction within me to be a better human. I also gained so much because it was a front row seat in a history class I never had the privilege to take.

Also, learning that I was pregnant in August was the moment I realized the rest of my life was officially beginning. I have visited 13 countries, lived in 4 states, and attended 4 different colleges all by the age of 27. However, none of that can compare to the transition that I am experiencing today. I am about to be a mother. I will give birth to a human being next April. I have never felt so powerful.

What do you look forward to the most after becoming a mother?

Loving the hell out of my baby. Nursing my baby from my own breast. Speaking life into them (he or she). Learning how to become a parent along with Darrin. Providing a safe environment as well as a supportive one. Introducing my child to God. Teaching my child about their beautiful history and existence. Showing my child the world. Allowing them to be as creative as they want to be. There are so many things.

I am also honored to share this life-changing moment with Darrin. I have no doubt in my mind that he will be the best father to our child. I could not imagine having this moment with anymore else.

What are three of your favorite quotes?  

“The next time he points out the hair on your legs is growing back - remind that boy your body is not his home. He is a guest. Warn him to never outstep his welcome again.”

-Rupi Kaur

“Baby girl, respect is just a minimum.”

-Lauryn Hill

“We are not fighting for integration, nor are we fighting for separation. We are fighting for recognition as human beings...In fact, we are actually fighting for rights that are even greater than civil rights and that is human rights.”

-Malcolm X

Spring in New York

This past April I traveled back to New York after a year away. When I landed at Laguardia, I purchased an unlimited 7 day MTA card and caught the Q70 to Broadway and Roosevelt. With only a purse and my camera, I hopped on the E Train to head into the city. My first stop was the World Trade Center. From there, I ventured out into what used to my reality. From catching up with my friends, shooting clients, visiting my peeps at the New York Film Academy and being a plus one at an event, I realized how much New York used to wear me out. I'm super stoked about not forgetting my directions, getting over 30,000 steps in, and eating my old favorite Halal food. My only regret was not making it up to the Bronx to get some authentic Dominican food. Next time!

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